Think Different. You Decide.

written by john c ashworth

I have an old book I refer to on occasion titled, “Mind as Healer, Mind as Slayer.” One of those titles that almost reveals enough all on its own. There’s a lot of great stuff inside that book. I encourage you to pick-up your own copy on eBay. The chapter on Autogenic Training is enough to change your life on its own.

I don’t have time this morning to get into all of that so here is the quick message I wanted to get to you today…

You decide on the caliber of information you allow in your mind.

You decide on the caliber of people you surround yourself with on a daily basis.

You decide on your environment and the ways in which you can create one that serves you or steals from you.

You decide whether or not you will be a victim or a smashing success.

Think Different.

Here’s just one simple example. Something I wrote back in 2015 when I was in the car business.


The irresistible pull of irrational behavior

As usual, I’m reading multiple books at one time. A life long habit.

It’s amazing sometimes how they tie together. Like a magic rope designed to pull you forward if you’ll only hang on and not give in and let go.

Today, one book led me to another, and they just so happened to relate very closely to a video my son sent me about the latest problems with the Boeing 737 Max 8.

The idea that it is all too easy for any of us, at any time, to be swayed by popular opinion, our tainted belief systems, and our unconscious nature as human beings to always want to fit in or to win.

Watch this video Carl sent me and you’ll see what I mean.

The two books I mentioned above are listed below too.

Book 1: DotCom secrets: the underground playbook for building your business online.

Book 2: Sway: the irresistible pull of irrational behavior.

Your Turn…

written by john c ashworth

I’m reading another terrific book. This one is written by Tim Ferris. He’s an interesting character and I’ve been following him on and off over the years. His first book you may remember, The 4-hour workweek. A great title, and another book I recommend, but not because I think you can actually accomplish everything you need to in four hours a week. Because just like ‘Tools of Titans‘ you can pick up a lot of great life strategies from Tim that have the potential to completely re-shape your existence, and set your life’s path on a new and more evolved trajectory.

In ‘Tools of Titans’ Tim pulls all the best stuff he’s accumulated over the years from interviews with the Titans he’s interviewed on his regular podcast over the years. Some very interesting, uniquely engaged human beings who will help you shift your thinking in a way that allows you to believe that almost anything is possible if you are simply willing to defy your current belief sytems and how much they can really hold you back.

It makes me think of that trick we used to pull back in high school where we would walk quietly behind someone and gently put a hand on their back-pack. Applying just enough pressure so that they wouldn’t initially notice. Subconsciously at first, the person would begin to think, “man, I’m feeling a little heavy, slow, like I’m having to work harder than I should.” Then, finally, as slightly more pressure was applied the person carrying the backpack had no othe choice but to turn around and see what might be holding them back. To turn around and see if they had in fact caught their pack on something, or if their mind was once again playing tricks on them.

Your current belief systems are likely holding you back in a similar way right now. In fact, it’s a fact. None of us are perfect. And none of us have it all figured out. The game is just to keep growing. Because remember, if you’re not growing, you’re dying. That’s why I read and write so much. Without this pursuit, I might be locked-up somewhere and receiving my meals through the mail slot.

Whether you decide to read ‘Tools of Titans’ is entirely up to you. In fact, that was the intention of this post when I first sat down to write it. To make the recommendation for this book. But now there seems a much more important message that is coming through…

What’s in your backpack? Weighing you down unnecesarily. What do you need to let go of so that you can break free and stimulate some personal growth. How heavy does it need to get before you are aware enough to turn around?

I know, we have all now been infected with the same virus. The one that attempts to make us believe that all this personal growth and self-improvement stuff is over-played. Over hyped. Over sold. It probably is, but it doesn’t change the fact that it’s still important. Remember, you’re either growing or dying. What’s most important is that you follow your own intuition and feed that intuition with the right informaiton from the right people. You need to construct adequate and intelligent filters. Like reading this post, for example. I’m glad you’re here.

I’ve got to go for now. Need to get to that day job and go take care of the business of the day. Looking forward to getting back to my writing over the weekend. Once again, thanks for being a part of it. It’s not as much fun without you.

Here’s the challenge I want to leave you with today. Dig in to that backpack and look around this weekend or at least in the near future and decide what it is that you no longer need. What’s in there that is weighing you down unnecessarily and often without you being consciously aware that it’s happening. Now, let it go…

In ‘Tools of Titans’ Tim interviews Jason Nemer, cofounder of AcroYoga ( A technique that blends the spiritual wisdom of yoga, the loving-kindness of Thai massage, and the dynamic power of acrobatics. Jason was a two-time US Junior national champion in sports acrobatics and represented the US at the World Championships in Beijing in 1991.

When traveling, Jason always carries a couple Frisbee discs for the Frisbee golf he loves to play. As Jason puts it, “There’s nothing like watching a Frisbee fly through the air away from you for minute or longer. It’s magical.”

Sometimes, rather than play golf, he stands somewhere he can gain altitude and perspective and just launches one of the discs with the intention of letting it go forever.

When he does this, he makes it intentional by asking himself a very important, intelligent and personal question as he watches it fly away…

“What am I releasing?”

Your turn.


The ultimate Bill Gates reading list — Quartz

books bill gates reading list

Could be something here for your memorial weekend reading list.  One hundred eighty five books compiled and read since 2010.  That’s about twenty three books per year or about two per month.  What’s your pace?  Mine is no where near that at the moment.  Time to step it up!


So just what does Gates read? Quartz manually compiled all 185 of the books mentioned on his blog, which dates back to January 2010, and organized them by topic.

Source: The ultimate Bill Gates book recommendation list — Quartz